There has been a few things going on that made me step back from life and think about the knock on effects that people have on our life… and how we sometimes miss the subtle signals that should make us take time to understand and listen to people.

Don’t get me wrong, there are a lot of people out there who say and do things to excuse their bad behaviour (I found that out!) … and because we are so used to this, we tend to ignore or miss the signs of the one’s who really do need help.

Honesty and truthfulness is a rare things these days … and I have to say I was the most sceptical of people especially after the lies from my ex and 2 really bad dating experiences … I had given up … happy to stick to friends and chat to people on line … then I met Ros … I have to smile now when I think of the times I said to my friends “I want someone just like my ex … but honest” … I didn’t think she existed … Im glad to say she does and is a huge part of my life now.

Who would have thought …