Advice is a great thing.   It is not always what you want to hear .. but sometimes you need to hear a different side of things to really get the full picture… 

However … sometimes “advice” is not as impartial as it seems … it can be given for someone’s own benefit or favour or out of jealousy.

We have to be adult enough to step back and listen to what is being said … not just what we want to hear .. but to what we do not want to hear to be able to form our OWN decisions.

Sadly, sometimes it is not advice we want but confirmation of our own thoughts .. we want people to agree with us whether it is right or wrong, true or false.

Weak people twist things to fit their own ideas and stories, even weaker people agree with them out of personal gain.

Something to think about ….