Brae. A gay woman's tale!

I had a lovely long lie this morning … didn’t  get up until nearly 8am!  The days of getting up earlier to write are now firmly behind me and I just have to worry about fitting my writing around my own schedule!

I had a wee bit of writing to do first thing and then hit the gym … and then had a long swim too … probably about 30 lengths today … but I did lose count so it may have been slightly less .. it may have been slightly more!

It was such a nice day that I didn’t want to be stuck in the house … so came home and dragged Sprout back to Aberdour beach … poor wee thing had already been out with the dog walker this morning … but she still managed to belt about like a mad thing… then we popped into see my mum … had to pass by Limekilns and Charlestown beaches that have suffered an oil spillage … it looks awful … but lots of things happening to clean it up … it does stink though!

Sprout was exhausted by the time she got to my mums … all she wanted to do was sit on her knee and give her kisses … she is such a sweet wee dog … if a bit of a monster too!

Came home and set about the summerhouse … I got rid of all the spider webs … still need to brush or hoover the floor, but I can’t find my sweeping brush!  (typical!)…. now I’m tired … on top of all my exercise I also managed to walk over 12000 steps today … I can feel my legs a wee bit stiff already!… and Im booked in for Zumba again tomorrow!  ouch!

..Someone has lied to me … they are gone … and I mean gone.  Never again to be part of my life in any shape or form.

Codependency is a very common disorder in relationships.   Whether it be a family dynamic or a romantic tryst, being Codependent only spells trouble for all.

A relationship where one is seen as being the “saviour” of the other results in unacceptable behaviour being seen as the norm … and excuses made, simply because of this need.

The truth is, you cannot save anyone from themselves … you cannot make a person someone they are not …

I had a lovely walk along Aberdour beach today with my pal Beck … as we were heading back to the car, we met a couple with a wee dog and Sprout and their wee dog were desperate to say hello …

We started chatting and found out both dogs were just over 1 year old …. both born in November … just laughing I said “you didnt get her from a farm in Shotts did you” … turns out they did! … they actually live in Shotts and when they went to pick up their pup there were two left … a rough hair and a smooth hair … they took the rough hair … the same day, I picked up Sprout! … these two are sisters … the couple actually live in Shotts and were just through in Aberdour for the day … and I cannot believe the strange coincidence … Beck and I were stunned!

Both dogs, although they look different, are exactly the same temperament wise and both love a cuddle!

In the last week there have been 3 huge coincidences … one of my friends sitting next to an ex of mine at a concert … then finding out that Mo and I both dated another ex … and now this … the universe must be trying to tell me something …. I am just not sure what yet!