It is no secret that I was absolutely stunned and shocked when my ex ended our relationship last year… and a for a long time I did hope that she would change her mind and come back.

Since then, things have happened that had made me think “jeez, lucky escape” … and although my two little dabbles into dating have been a disaster … I have no doubts that my life is going just the way it should be.

I am thinner and fitter than I have been in a long time, the constant pain in my back is much easier, even if it does “niggle” from time to time.  At last I am living the life I want to live .. I am loving the gym and swimming and watching my body change shape (and my clothes sizes shrinking dramatically!) is giving me a new lease of life.

I once again have a spring in my step, a twinkle in my eye and a new gym in my summerhouse!

Still loving my work, but looking forward to a wee break away in the caravan with my friend Karen at the end of March …

I am where I should be in life … I know myself and know what I want … I have no need to become just a mirror of someone, but then again, I never have been that type…. and I certainly do not need to bounce from one relationship to another, Im too strong for that.