imperfection2Are we honest enough to own up to our imperfections?

Are we open enough to accept and embrace them?

Sadly for many this seems an impossibility.   I see posts on various sites stating all the good points about someone, yeah that’s great .. but what I want is someone who knows their faults and owns them.  Accepting them and being responsible for them, instead of blaming others.

I see posts all the time from people looking for their “perfect woman” … such a thing does not exist .. it is not our perfections that make us compatible with another .. but our imperfections that match.

When you build a wall, the bricks are staggered, they are not perfectly lined up to match.  It is the staggering of these bricks that give the wall strength.   A relationship is no different.