I have just had a very interesting online conversation with someone who has just read my blog. I don’t know this girl and she does not know me .. but she liked the blog and asked why I came across so cynical towards love.
It was a hard question to answer … and I’m not sure I know the answer to it anyway.
She went onto say that 2 months ago she met a woman who is her “soul mate”, they are looking for flat together now and talking about having a family in the future and looking into the best way of doing this.
I asked her if she felt this was a long enough time to know someone to make these types of decisions and her reply was “Yes, everytime I see her I just want to make love to her”.
Now .. I’m all for a bit of passion and butterflies, but to build a “relationship” on the fact that you want to have sex with someone is, in my opinion, a recipe for disaster.
It takes me a while to fall in love, but when I love, I do love, maybe not in a huge passionate way, but in my way. I like to see what is left after the passion dies down a bit.
Maybe I have this all wrong .. I am really not sure … maybe I think differently, maybe I’m more cautious, but I certainly wouldn’t commit like that after 2 months!
What do you think?? Am I wrong?
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