I was chatting to a pal today who has found herself being single after a short fling.

She asked me “how will we know when we find the right one?” … and I had to reply, “I don’t have a clue”.

I guess when we meet someone that makes us feel “right” we just presume that they feel the same way… sadly, this is not always true.

People who leave you for the “small things” are people who are insecure in themselves, people without the strength of character to openly speak about what is bothering them … and to be honest… if the “small things” make them want to leave you, then they never loved you in the first place … love doesn’t breakdown over small things… there is always something bigger in the background … normally an open pair of legs!