Brae. A gay woman's tale!

I have had a car adapter thing for my satnav and mobile for a couple of years.   Last night on my way up to Broughty Ferry, my phone wouldn’t charge … we tried the charger cables into a separate USB port in the car… but still nothing.

On my way out this morning, I tried once more to see if the charger would work (my phone charged perfectly in the house overnight)… when I plugged it into the adapter thingy… smoke started billowing out! … I had to quickly unplug everything, pull it out of the cigarette lighter slot and chuck it out of the window.

I was just glad it happened when I was sitting outside the house, if it had happened on the motorway, there could have been a disaster!

My two chargers in the car have been made unusable by this … but in the bigger of scale of things, I think I got off lightly!

Be careful if you use an adapter … I have another in the motorhome and when I get her back, I will be getting rid of it!

I had a bit of a weird experience on Match last night … A woman, from far down south, started messaging me … at first all was pretty normal, and I am happy to chat away to most people, so I replied.

It was the general sort of chit chat .. when all of a sudden she sent me a message that made me think “what the feck!” …

Seemingly I have “unfinished business” with my ex … and I need to “tell her how I feel”

I was very polite and told her that the “business” was definitely finished and that she knew exactly how I felt when we split and I had no intention of contacting her or going over the same old shit again.

She did get a bit “insistant” with me … to the point I stopped replying to her messages …

There is definitely no unfinished business … my ex made her choice and although, it is no secret, how much I was hurt by her actions, I have moved on and in a way, now see the split as a good thing.  There were too many things about my ex and her life that made me uncomfortable.

The  only thing I can think of as being “unfinished” is that she left a shirt here .. but it fits  me … so I am wearing it LOL

I am looking forward to this weekend, even if it is very full on … tonight I am out in Broughty Ferry with some friends, tomorrow I am meeting the very funny lady I met on Match for a quick coffee, before heading off to the Mutt Hutt with wee sprout, my pal and my mum, who wants to come along to see wee Sprouty having fun!

Sunday, I am having a gathering here at my house … lots of friends coming, some I haven’t seen in a wee while … and somewhere amongst all that, I need to dig out lots of information for my solicitor as the legal action against Sandy Dick starts in earnest!

All in all … I have too much “new business” to look forward to and deal with that I have no time for “old business” that is bankrupt.

I don’t feckin’ believe in Psychics anyway!

I am not sure I really want a refund… I think I just need to learn to make better choices.

I was chatting to friends tonight and I realised that I miss too many warning signs when it comes to affairs of my heart.

I have been fooled much more in recent years… and I have no idea why that is… but I’ve realised that I am not alone in this and that fact is actually quite frightening.

I am tired of wasting my love and emotion on those, that quite frankly, are not deserving of either…. and I am not prepared to be anyone’s quick fix, stepping stone or wee sordid fantasy.

I am worth more than that, and would rather be happy on my own, than put up with anything fake.